This blog will not be a sad one. But just to start things off I'm going to post the eulogy I wrote for Diarmuid's funeral. After that I'll be posting lots of funny stories and precious memories of a life well lived.
Hundreds of people showed up on 20th January 2012 to pay their respects to Diarmuid and to say a final farewell. We had some stunning music (thanks to Colin McClean, Ian Richards, Lauren O'Brien and the BCS School Choir). For me the part that stands out the most and makes me so proud was when my brother Chris sang Luke Kelly's The Night Visiting Song. There wasn't a dry eye in the house. I felt so loved and so blessed when I listened to it. Some day I hope Chris will record his version of it but, in the meantime, here is Luke Kelly's version...
And here is the eulogy......
"Diarmuid was my best friend. He was the funniest person I've ever met. Even in the midst of a crisis he had the ability to make me laugh. His wit was legendary and his musical talent was inspiring.
I met Diarmuid at a gig in 1988. His loving nature and sense of humour made me fall in love with him instantly. The fact that he played in a band (or 5!) didn't hurt either! He loved the northside and liked to refer to himself as an honorary norrie!
We got married in 1993. There are too many happy memories to list but I can say for certain that the three happiest days of our lives were the days our children, Emmet, Daniel and Aisling, were born. Diarmuid loved his children at first sight and that love never wavered for a second. He expertly balanced the roles of loving father and carefree rocker!
He passed on to his children a passion for music that they will carry with them their whole lives. Thank you Emmet, Daniel and Aisling for making Dad so so proud and for being the best sons and daughter any parent could ever hope to have.
I am privileged and honoured to have had Diarmuid in my life for 23 years. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your love and friendship.
We love you Diarmuid. We are heartbroken but we will see you again. Sleep tight my love."
